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What Women Want From Men In Bed

What Does Your Woman REALLY Want?

The behavior of women is as much of a mystery to men as that of men is to women. However, one thing is certain.

The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted.

They want men to try and win their affection. It’s a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want.

Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men:

1. Well groomed

Do women pay attention to the way a man is dressed?
Do women want men to open doors for them?

Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered. Among other things, they expect them to know the social graces. They also expect them to be well dressed, and in tune with the fashion of the day. Men who are loud or bawdy are unlikely to win the attention of sensitive women. The same applies to those men who don’t pay sufficient attention to the way they look.

2. Good listener

Should men do what women want?
Listen carefully to what a woman says

All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don’t intend to do what their women want. The very fact that their point of view was considered before a decision was taken is enough to make the women happy. It is the basis of a strong relationship.

3. Good in bed

What do women want in bed?
Do women like to be forced?
How can women be made happy?

Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his women He should, however, not take advantage of a relationship. But he should respect those days when the woman wants to stay off. Women don’t like to be pushed into sex unless they are in a mood to do so. They would much rather prefer being cajoled and cuddled instead of being rushed into sex.

4. Honest and sincere

Do women want to know everything about their men?
Should men tell everything to women?

Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don’t want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence. Men should also not try to delude women into false notions. They must gently inform them of their problems without being blunt or cruel. No woman wants to be told that she is ugly, fat or dumb. But, at the same time, they would not like their men to lie to them about their looks.

5. Stable career

How important is financial stability?
Are women after successful men?

Women want stability in their lives. They don’t want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises

Should men give lavish gifts to win the love of women?
Gifts that women cherish the most

No woman wants to be tied to home and children. She would like some excitement in her life. This is where men need to be imaginative and thoughtful. The surprises need not be big; they can be as simple as enjoying an evening at the theater, followed by a dinner at her favorite restaurant or it can be driving down to a resort at the weekend. The joy is multiplied if these bonuses come unannounced.

7. Intelligent and witty

Are witty men more charming?
How does intelligence matter in a relationship?

Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own musings are unlikely to enchant women. Women like men who are willing to chat with them on their wavelength.

What happens after the flirting and foreplay gets heavy?

The next step is always showing her what you’ve got and if you aren’t pleased with what you have then chances are she is going to have a hard time getting excited about it, too. Women have high levels of empathy and they can sense these types of emotions in guys.

Learn How to Give Women What they REALLY want

You know, there really is no great mystery or puzzle to solve when it comes to answering the question, what do women really want in bed. Some websites claim it’s all about the size of your penis, while others say it’s the thickness that counts.

Some proclaim they have just the pill or other herbal products you can take to increase performance, while others assure that their cream will make you just the kind of man she wants. But really there is only one ingredient that a real woman wants in her man and that is ‘confidence.’

Talking confidence

There is nothing quite like being in the arms of a man who knows what to do, how to do it, and what exactly will turn her on. It really doesn’t matter how tall you are, how good looking you are, or even how much money you have in the bank, but if you don’t know how to make a woman feel like you know exactly what you are doing, then you are lost even before you make eye contact.

Now when talking confidence, we are not talking arrogance, or dominance, or just macho-ness – we are just talking men who are confident in their abilities and that can be subtle but women know it’s there.


It’s all in the attitude, and it simply means, don’t worry, I can do this. In bed, a woman wants to know that her man knows exactly what he is doing and even though she may take a turn being the boss from time to time, it’s really up to the man to call the shots and shine where he can shine the best.

So really no matter what the size or shape of your penis, if you have confidence, and know great techniques and are not afraid to just take charge, your woman will feel safe and secure and trust you to know exactly what to do to give her the most pleasure possible.

And we all know that pleasuring our women is more than half the fun, because if she is really pleasured then she will be way more willing to do what we want her to do to pleasure us. Now that sounds like a win-win doesn’t it?

Increase self esteem

The bottom line is this – do whatever you can to increase your confidence inside and outside the bedroom. Take a few risks, challenge yourself and all that will happen will be an increase in your own self esteem and with that you can take on the world.

Andrew Faix

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