Smooth Moves With The Ladies Tips
The truth is, you don’t need to worry that much about how “smooth” your pick up moves are. If you do, you’ll likely fall prey to using cheesy lines and coming off as fake.
To really understand how to make women perceive you as smooth — not fake — you have to understand that there are actually two parts to attraction: creating initial attraction, and sustaining it.
If you want to have long-term relationships with women, you obviously have to master both.
Smooth Move Tip #1: Do the Unexpected Technique Approach
One of the most powerful techniques to sustaining attraction is to continually do the unexpected. It doesn’t have to be earth-shattering; just unexpected.
This is important for two reasons. First off, it shows the woman in your life that you do think about her, value her, AND you actively work on creating the environment for her to be happy.
That’s very attractive.
But the second reason is less obvious. When you do the unexpected, it prevents boredom and monotony from setting in. Getting into a rut is one of the reasons why relationships go bad. Boredom is a deadly attraction killer.
Doing the unexpected on a consistent basis is a defense against boredom. And it’s not that difficult to do.
It could be saying something different to her. Bringing her a small, unexpected gift. Going somewhere unexpected. The truth is, what you do doesn’t really matter — but the results do.
Smooth Move Tip #2: Warm Up Before You Pick Up
A well-known martial arts instructor said something interesting to me once: “Emotion stands for energy in motion.”
What he meant was that if your energy is low or bad, your emotion will be too… and everyone will pick up on it.
If you’re feeling sick, down or tired it’s just about impossible to attract women. They pick up on your negative energy and it short circuits any attraction.
However, there are things you can do about this. Whenever you leave the house, it is important to get yourself in the mood to attract women.
Mentally rehearse what you will say and do when you see an attractive woman. Replay the successes you’ve had in the past. Practice your “naughty boy smile” in front of the mirror, making sure your eyes back it up (a real smile shows through the eyes; a phony one is betrayed by them).
It takes only a couple of minutes. But when you do this, you “warm yourself up” for creating attraction with women. Your mind is oriented in that direction, and you don’t have to start a conversation with a “cold mind”.
This “warm up routine” is one of those seemingly small things that makes the difference between men who are average with women and those who succeed wildly.
Smooth Move Tip #3: Tap That Creating Attraction Biology
Keeping her on the edge and preparing for pick up mentally are a great place to start. But do you really want to attract beautiful women? Then start thinking Darwin.
You know where I’m going with this. I’m talking about Nexus Pheromones. And you know exactly why I’m talking about Nexus Pheromones. Biology 101.
When you strip away social convention, and our clothes and our hair and make-up and the image we convey, it really comes down to a song that earned play time years ago with its clever lyrics and video.
Remember that song, where those guys dressed up as gorillas and sang “You and me baby ain’t nuthin’ but mammals so let’s do it like they do on the Discovery Channel”?
Nexus Pheromones give off a chemical secretion that tap into a woman’s physiological need to procreate. So do yourself a favor and get some of that evolutionary love.